My withdrawal from a PhD at U of T wasn’t sudden. It followed months of small denials,shifting rules, delayed responses, and inconsistent policies that formed a pattern of institutional betrayal. Leaving was self-preservation and a call for accountability, for me and for others facing similar barriers. If you’re navigating disability, caregiving, or moving goalposts, you’re not alone. Find resources and community at Grandma Knows Best. Mental health matters, and boundaries ar