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Apparently You Need a Master’s Degree to Care
I was qualified enough to volunteer, but not qualified enough to be paid. A look at who gets to decide what knowledge counts, whose care work is valued, and why lived experience so often becomes respectable only after an institution stamps it.
Sep 104 min read


DEI Exposed — But Exposed to Whom?
If DEI became so powerful inside universities, why were so many Black people still fighting the university? A look at bureaucracy, representation, protection and who actually held institutional power.
Sep 38 min read


Who Gets the Pencil — and Who Gets Erased?
Ontario says it is putting $750 into elementary classrooms. But when teachers are told where they must spend it, the real question is not only how much government spends — it is who benefits before the child does.
Sep 26 min read


They Bring Flowers When You’re Dead
What happens when institutions recognize the problem only after the person who raised it can no longer benefit from the solution? Through Roslyn Thomas-Long, Jason Arday, Sandra Bland and my own experience, I consider institutional disposability, belated recognition, and the terrible distance between being welcomed and being considered worth fighting for.
Aug 188 min read


What Is an Ally in Practice?
Allyship is not proved by making room for Black people to speak, but by what happens after the truth has been heard. By Carla Rodney Back in 2022, I shared a short passage from the City of Toronto’s Black Mental Health page. It distinguished advocacy from allyship. Advocacy, it said, is standing up for people who cannot stand up for themselves; allyship is making room and space for people to stand up for themselves. At the time, something about that distinction stood out to m
Jul 285 min read
If Dorothy Roberts Were a Class
What if Dorothy Roberts’s scholarship formed the foundation of an entire course? This imagined syllabus brings together her work on race, medicine, family policing, reproduction and abolition.
Jul 2515 min read


Why I Dropped Out — and Fought Back Against One of Canada’s Top Universities
My withdrawal from a PhD at U of T wasn’t sudden. It followed months of small denials,shifting rules, delayed responses, and inconsistent policies that formed a pattern of institutional betrayal. Leaving was self-preservation and a call for accountability, for me and for others facing similar barriers. If you’re navigating disability, caregiving, or moving goalposts, you’re not alone. Find resources and community at Grandma Knows Best. Mental health matters, and boundaries ar
Sep 11, 20256 min read
The Cost of Silence: How a Colonial Approach to Learning Harms Women
Why is it that when older women struggle, we are so easily overlooked? Why do our challenges seem to disappear into the background, seen as less urgent or important? As I faced eviction due to financial hardship, while grieving losses and navigating a global pandemic, I was left wondering why the University of Toronto—an institution I once trusted—saw my struggles as invisible. It felt as though I was expected to be endlessly resilient, pushing through obstacles without quest
Oct 16, 20243 min read
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